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The quality of our lives is determined by the quality of our relationships. — Esther Perel

Your relationship can be better.
I can help.

Hi, I’m Lori Cashman Irwin and I’m a Certified Relational Life Therapy Coach. RLT is an approach that is supported by neuroscience and evidence-based outcomes. Founded by the long-time successful couples’ therapist and author, Terry Real, this methodology differs from traditional talk-therapy and standard marriage counseling approaches.  RLT involves a relational discovery process that brings to light the unsuccessful patterns and stances where many couples find themselves stuck; unconsciously.  Then we get to the roots of how those stances came to be. RLT gets to the heart of the matter.

The key to lasting change in a relationship is seeing the relationship and yourself in a new light, understanding the template you brought into the relationship, and learning a new set of skills that are extremely teachable.

Other therapies teach you skills; we work with the part of you that won’t use them. — Terry Real

A satisfying, truly intimate and connected relationship is waiting for you on the other side.  There is no other investment you could make that will affect the quality of your life more than an investment in the quality of your relationship.

I offer online RLT couples counseling and I work with couples from all over the world. If you’re interested in setting up a free consult call, click the button below.

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I learned a lot by meeting with Lori and by reflecting, and by working through, and putting into practice many RLT tools. We’re still practicing these skills and have moved toward a better understanding of each other and ourselves in our relationship together and with others… I highly recommend Lori as a skilled RLT practitioner. Meeting with her and doing the course and reading RLT content has been a very worthwhile investment. I’ve recommended RLT therapy and courses to many of my friends. Thanks, Lori!

— KN